Life

Unconditional Love- To Mum, With Love

From small to tall, you raised me 

Told me there was an entire world to see.

Gave me an unconditional love, 

And was always there to give me a little shove.

If I could have one aspiration, dream or wish for you

Mum! It’d be to let you know ‘I love you so’

 

An unconditional best friend,

Our relationship will never end.

A constant figure in my life, always there to give advice,

And always prepared to make the sacrifice.

If I could have one aspiration, dream or wish for you

Mum! It’d be to let you know ‘I love you so’

 

Together we will take the world by storm,

Showing them all that our weird and wonderful relationship is the norm.

When life is stressful- I know you are there,

No matter what you’ll always care.

If I could have one aspiration, dream or wish for you

Mum! It’d be to let you know ‘I love you so’

 

You are no ordinary mum,

You always have the right words when I’m glum.

I guess that this is your job-

The two of us, make an unbeatable mob.

If I could have one aspiration, dream or wish for you

Mum! It’d be to let you know ‘I love you so’

 

No matter how hard life has got, 

You’ve been there since I was a tot. 

What I’m trying to say is ‘Thank You’

I know our special relationship is true.

If I could have one aspiration, dream or wish for you

Mum! It’d be to let you know ‘I love you so’

 

—Written By Stephanie Watson—

 

 

 

 

 

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Life

6 Things I Regret Not Doing

You may be thinking she is only in her twenties, what would she regret in her life? Well, the truth is no matter how old you are there is always going to be something you look back on and think you could have done it differently. If you don’t, then you have had a very lucky life. Not that I have had a bad life, it has been really good but, there are things I would change.

Youth is blunder; Manhood a struggle, Old age a regret

– Benjamin Disrach

Here is my list of six things I regret not doing:

 1. Telling People What I Really Think- 

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Sometimes I have kept my mouth shut to my benefit, whether to avoid a confrontation or simply because I didn’t want to get involved in the first place. Opposingly, there have been times I’ve opened my mouth and would love to keep it shut now…not many but some. But I do regret not always telling people what I think because maybe I would have avoided dramas, or could be in a completely different place to what I am now. For me, this realisation socially only came a few years ago but, I wish it would have happened earlier.

 2. A Smaller Social Circle- 

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I know most people probably wanted a larger social circle but, I always wonder now if I hadn’t coasted through school and had a larger social group, if would be close to people from secondary now. You see my close friends are a small group from university of about five people. And it is drama-free and pretty chilled group of people. I wish I had that earlier on.

3. Healthier Routines & Habits Earlier On-

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My Running Time

If I had only gotten healthier habits and routines earlier like less fizzy pop and sweets and exercised a little bit more, I think it would have been easier to get into it later on. Currently, I am on a little hiatus whilst I get my health fixed but I wonder if I had kept on with athletics and running what I would be doing now? What I would have took at university?

4. Buying More Books…

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I own around seventy already but, I would definitely buy more if I could. And expand my reading circle even more. Instead of reading a few classics such as Oscar Wilde’s Dorian Gray or Bram Stoker’s Dracula alongside my supernatural favourites and fantasy books, I would read more classics or expand my reading circle even more. But, I would definitely buy more.

 5. Getting Out Of My Comfort Zone-

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Had I gotten out of my comfort zone earlier on, I would have probably taken more chances much earlier in my life. This could be in applying for jobs, sticking with a club or sport, taken a year out before university or even going on holiday more. It may have led to a completely different life path than now but, I don’t think so. This is because I’m relatively happy with life now.

 6. Getting Rid Of My Junk Earlier-

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I collected a lot when I was younger and I didn’t get rid of it. When it came to sorting my room out for a new bed, it took a week to sort through the stuff and TWO people. That is a lot of stuff. Truthfully, I wish I had been cleaner and organised earlier. It would have been a lot less stress, and a simpler life.

 

Life

I Don’t Remember The Song Asking For a White Spring?

So, last week I was unable to post which may have blown my resolution but, the horrible migraine I suffered from Sunday to Wednesday comes first. Health always comes first. I could barely look out the windows or at any screen, never mind typing out and posting a blog piece. It’s a good job I was off all week. NOW, to my blog post.

Over here, in the moody-weathered United Kingdom we’ve experienced snow. Yes, we’ve had it before but, it hasn’t snowed like this for about eight-years. As you probably experienced in all of your shops products have been low, milk has disappeared from the shelves quicker than the road runner doing a lap and bread? Twice as fast as that. It’s panic buying at it’s best, and if that doesn’t tell you we are less experienced than America or Russia or any of the other places that experience deep snow regularly, I don’t know what will. We are used to thunder and lightning, the constant pitter-patter of rain and even 20 degree heat (hot for us) but, snow? It’s like when you have the family you see every now and again but, not all the time. It just isn’t always cold enough here. So thank you, beast from the east. Maybe the young ‘uns will now know what proper snow days are, where you can’t or won’t leave the house for anything other than sledging, walking the dog or getting necessities.

What is odd though- is that we are in the last few weeks of Winter now and it would have been awesome to experience this over Christmas instead! As the song goes…

“I’m dreaming of a white Christmas…”

It is the most random time to have a snow event in the UK. Although, the weather here never does make sense. When it’s Summer, we tend to experience loads of rain and when its Winter? Not snow, but rain and oddly enough sunshine. Is it constantly opposite day for the UK. Imagine a moody, hormonal teenager- yes? You never quite know what you will experience with them on the day. It is a bit like experiencing hormonal whiplash. That is what it is like with the weather here. We basically live in the climate of a hormonal teenager.

I did venture out in this weather myself. I had to. I made the three-mile walk in deep snow, with snow falling to get into my local town. It was cold and wet, but at least I got this weeks workout in. Even saw a guy running in it, on his way to work! Crazy, but that is what it is like to live over here. We don’t always know the meaning of dangerous. It’s more about getting on with stuff no matter what. Illness? Take a tablet. Floods? Put on your wellies. Snow? Layers and walking boots are your friend. Extremely hot sun? Suncream up, and cover up but don’t stop what you are doing. I guess the constant weather whiplash made us a country of resilient individuals who just get on with it.

I once heard a group of tourists complaining about the heavy rain and extremely windy weather stating they were heading back to the hotel because they couldn’t shop in this. Meanwhile our high streets were filled with Brits who were going about their day, braving the rain and hoping their brollies would hold out. What is the lesson here then?

Well, it’s about the resilience of UK residents. No matter the time, place or weather- we are a nation of people who just get on with stuff.