Life

Dear Me, From Past Me

Recently I produced a blog post writing an open letter to my younger self. This has myself thinking. What do I want to remember from now? What would I tell my future self? And so, here is a letter to my future self. Everything I want to say, know and do.

To Future Steph,

I have a few questions… Are flying cars real yet? Have we successfully built artificial intelligence? Who’s running the country…a robot? How’ve we done in life? Okay, I’ll stop asking, if we still have the same personality I know you want me to slow down. We are currently in our twenty-second-year of life… nearly twenty three, and we’ve finally decided what we want to do with life so, overall we are doing pretty well. And I hope we are still kicking arse now! With family, with work, with life in general.

So, it has been a pretty stressful time for us over the last few years but, we’re finally coming out of the other side. We graduated- dressed fabulously I might add, we have got a job and we are happy. I hope you still are. I just want to say that although there are things that may get you down in life- if you just stand your ground and believe in yourself we can do anything. I think we are doing pretty amazingly now. Oh, I thought of another question…has our brothers taste in music changed? Does he like classics such as AC/DC and not that stuff with beats and no lyrics….. If it hasn’t we need to do something stat.

Right, we are going on our first girls holiday soon to Barcelona and it will be beautiful and gorgeous. How are the girls? And who was the first one to have kids? We’ll be taking plenty of pictures to look back on so, if you forget about the adventure, there will be reminders. Oh, does Facebook still exist? As you can tell, we are still chatty and inquisitive but, I don’t expect that to change. Just remember to continue asking the hard questions, that will get you far in life. You are doing pretty good now I believe.

We are still keeping fit, standing our ground and trying to excel in life here. It’s the best way to achieve our goals. We’ve set a few new ones this year such as this very blog’s increasing traffic, and getting healthy, baking more for everyone and getting better. You know it is our year. WE DID THIS. Do we have loads of dogs? I think we do. If I know me! It is something we talk about and of course, we have more tattoos. If there is some way you can psychically tell me what we choose, I’ll get right on that. We are planning on two more tattoos this year at least. How big? And where? Well, we aren’t that far ahead just yet. We’ll figure it out.

How is the family? Is dad still embarrassing us with his dad dancing? I had a taster today and I’m scarred for life. You are probably still feeling the affect of that… I’m sorry, we should have closed our eyes. Is mum still baking bread and cakes? Or are they just travelling the world in their little motorhome while we worry? Currently, it looks like family life is getting back on track which is brilliant. Just remember- 1,2,3,4….7,8,9,10. Oh and if you want a laugh then just remember a few weeks ago when dad did a celebratory dance because he got the word ’emoji’ on Countdown. He’s probably still as competitive now. We are a few weeks into the six nations. Of course, you know the result so just send those positive vibes to the England rugby teams for us. Your the best.

Anyway, I think that’s enough for now. Although, we will talk again.

See you in the future

Past Steph- an awesome redhead.

 

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Life

Trust Your Gut

Inkling
We’ve all gone through situations wherein, once the light at the end of the tunnel is close you wonder why you didn’t TRUST YOUR GUT. Because if you had trusted your gut, would you have ever been in that situation? Well that gut feeling, that INKLING you felt at the beginning of the situation. It was trying to warn you.

I like to start a daily prompt with a definition of the word. I find it helps when you’ve read the post. So here goes;

Inkling: a slight knowledge or suspicion; a hint

Cast your mind back to any time in your life. Whether it is meeting someone, or just witnessing something. Did you get that twinge in your gut then? You see, that was probably your brain telling you there is something suspicious happening. It was giving you a warning. And obviously, you shouldn’t only trust the inkling, you need to interpret that gut feeling because you are recognising these situations for a reason. So, it’s best to draw on those past experiences and ask yourself why? Why am I feeling this? 

Now there are probably a few people who would rely solely on logic, disregarding the inkling/gut feeling but, are they truly disregarding it? Or do they still feel those same pangs and just pass it off as a logical response. But, psychologists and other professor/lecturer types have actually written articles on this with the idea that your ‘gut’ is actually a thing. Alongside that, we’ve all grown up with the age-old advice whether it is from our parents? grandparents? aunties and uncles? even friends? that you should “go with your gut”, “trust your gut” etc. As there are many different ways to say the same thing. If it doesn’t feel right, make the best decision for you. 

This can also be said for taking jobs, interacting with co-workers and strangers, dates, randomers in the street. You utilise experience, logic and how you are feeling. It’s similar to the idea of being scared and your hair standing up on the back of your neck. While yes, it is a fear response there is some correlation between knowing when something isn’t right. Our bodies have developed simple ways to tell us, if something just isn’t right. Evolution at its finest. And we should trust those indicators because even if it isn’t a familiar situation, our brain and body is always working and it clearly recognises this situation. 

In the end, it is truly up to you. But, if you get an inkling about a situation I’m a believer you should at least listen to what your inner self is trying to say. You never know- you may avoid that argument or worse if you trust that feeling next time. All I’m suggesting is, you could avoid some unnecessary stress if you rely on your instinct. And avoiding unnecessary stress is the best for anyone. It’ll make your life much easier. I think I’ll leave you with an age-old piece of advice that we should all consider. And you’ve probably heard it one-thousand times- TRUST YOUR GUT.

via Daily Prompt: Inkling